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Emma stood in the kitchen, staring at the kettle she’d set on the stove.
“Mom,” she called, laughing a little,
“I’m pretty sure this is the third time I’ve boiled water today. Did you drink that last cup?”
Her mother, seated at the table, gave her a confused look before breaking into a smile.
“Maybe I’m trying to keep you on your toes,” she said, her eyes twinkling, though neither of them knew if she remembered the joke from five seconds ago.
Alzheimer’s had been slowly unraveling her mother’s once-vibrant mind. Some days, it felt like Emma was talking to a stranger in the shell of the woman who had raised her. It was exhausting, frustrating, and heartbreaking all at once. But every now and then, there were glimpses of her mom. Like today, with that half-joking smile, or the time her mom had suddenly remembered the lyrics to their favorite song, surprising them both.
At night, when Emma finally sat down, the weight of it all felt unbearable. Yet, she wasn’t alone. Her friends would text her jokes, or sometimes, they’d come over and help prepare meals for the week.
“This isn’t just caregiving,” they’d say, “This is a team effort.”
And slowly, Emma began to realize they were right. It wasn’t about coping; it was about thriving together.
Her brother would fly in once a month, just to spend a weekend with their mother—moments that gave Emma much-needed breaks and reminded her that caregiving was a shared responsibility.
One day, while folding laundry, Emma’s mom wandered into the room. She stood quietly for a while, then said,
“You’re doing such a good job, sweetie.”
Emma froze, not sure if her mom really knew what she was saying, but the words hit her deeply.
They weren’t perfect, but they were building something together, a quilt of memories—some fading, some fresh, all stitched with love.
In the end, Emma realized this wasn’t just about managing her mother’s illness; it was about creating new ways to live. They weren’t just coping. They were thriving in the small, beautiful moments that still glimmered through the mornings and early evenings fog.
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